Skinny Love

I’ve disappeared for quite some time now not because I lost interest, but because I haven’t been truly inspired lately and that’s when I really enjoy writing. So let’s just carry on with this blog okay? 

Insecurities. This word is so complex because it has so much meaning behind it. It legitimately has the ability to destroy a person. In the society we live in today it’s easy to pick out other people’s flaws and even one’s own flaws. TOO FAT, TOO SKINNY, TOO TALL, TOO SHORT, ACNE, TEETH, SCARS, SKIN TYPE, NOT PRETTY ENOUGH, THE COMMENTS ARE ENDLESS. I’m not even going to lie, at some points in my life I would look at other girl’s Instagrams and compare myself to them. I definitely am not the only person in the world who does this, the thing is though I brushed off the thoughts and moved on with my life. For some people it is not that easy.

I’ve always been really thin due to my extremely fast metabolism and I never thought much about it until I was compared to a stick or got told that I need to eat more. At first it kind of hurt my feelings but then it just got annoying. I’ve tried different methods to gain weight but I’ve never gained where I think I need to so oh well, that’s fine. I’ve learned to embrace my body shape and size and you should too. I don’t want to get deep into the subject of insecurities because like I said before it’s a very complex word that can go down so many different paths that I definitely want to write about soon. Until then, remember that once you have accepted your own flaws, no one can use them against you. 

With love,

Deanna Marie