Change isn’t always a bad thing

            Over the past year, I’ve lost a lot of people that I always pictured being in my life forever. Some chose to walk out of my life, others I decided that it’d be best to leave, & then some kind of just drifted away. I allowed some people’s absence to tear me apart, just ruin me completely & that was probably one of the toughest things I ever had to go through. Looking back, some situations just drained me emotionally and physically. I never should have let it get as bad as it did. At the time though, I couldn't just get over it like people tell you to do. It’s always easier said then done.

         When I finally overcame it, it gave me a different mindset. I realized that people who aren’t in my life anymore weren’t meant to be. I know that I miss some of them at times, but there was just a lot of bad vibes that came from them. With that came a lot of negativity and thoughts that I wasn’t good enough or important enough. 

    Lately, I realized my dreams and what I want to do after graduation and those people wouldn’t have helped me get to where I need to be anyway. I’m now surrounded with positive people who believe in my abilities & friends who have crazy, amazing dreams too. I’m very blessed to have these people in my life and I would never ever trade them for anything. Yes, I agree change is scary & sometimes it can get the best of us, but from experience something better is always on the other end. 

“Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” -Jim Rohn